You're doing all the right things, all the things your team has told you to do: you’re facing the prospect of divorce head-on. But when the process gets hard, it’s even harder to keep your head held high. How do you keep your focus on a successful outcome when ... Continue Reading
Forgiveness and Brighter Futures After Divorce with Twyla M. Marks
What does it mean to forgive after your divorce? You can count many reasons to hold a grudge; you have all the reasons that led you to divorce in the first place, but divorce isn’t normally a process that naturally cultivates calm and understanding. So, how do ... Continue Reading
A Post-Divorce Valentine’s Day to Remember
Whatever your position on Valentine's Day as a holiday, there's no denying the cultural charge of romantic expectation around us. That charge can work wonders, lifting us to romantic heights and hormonal bliss — when it’s working. But what happens when it’s not? ... Continue Reading
The Toaster Hollywood Holiday Special
Happy New Year! In our season break, we brought the team together to talk about divorce in the movies. From hyper-stylized to hyper-real, how well do filmmakers capture divorce? Producer Andy Nelson joins Pete and Seth as we build our divorce movie ... Continue Reading
Redesigning Your Life with Jamie Blumenthal • Rebroadcast
We’re on a short break as we celebrate the holidays with our families and gear up for season five coming in 2022. While we’re away, we thought it might be nice to take another trip down memory lane and share some of our favorite episodes from our early seasons of ... Continue Reading
417: Healing Trauma, Rebuilding Life with Dee Wallace
How do you heal after living through the trauma of divorce? How do you help your kids heal when they live through their own experience of your trauma? Whether you consider yours an easy divorce, or a hard one, the act of separating lives is traumatic, and the ... Continue Reading
416: Bride in Reverse with Writer Becca Bycott
We’ve talked about divorce and the law. We’ve talked about the emotional rebuilding after a divorce, too. But somewhere in between the legal and the emotional exists the practical: how do you present yourself to the world? This week on the show we’re talking all ... Continue Reading
415: Tired of Darkness: Life After Divorce with Chidima Anusiem
What happens to your life after divorce? Author Chidima Anusiem, or “Author Chi”, joins us this week to talk about the transition. From social rebuilding to emotional health, her work as a divorce coach working with other divorced women offers a unique perspective ... Continue Reading
414: Protecting the Suddenly Single and their Money with Simon Brady
If you’re newly divorced, this episode is going to hit home. Today, we’re dealing with one of the central questions that form the overall arc of your divorce story: how do you handle the money? This week on the show, we have a guest seasoned in helping the ... Continue Reading
413: Finding Your Tribe with Divorced Over Forty’s Daniel Herrold
We’ve talked about grey divorce on the Toaster. We’ve talked about high dollar divorce on the Toaster. But what are the issues facing the messy middle, sitting right at the top of the divorce bell curve? That’s the topic of this week’s show, and to lead us through ... Continue Reading